How to Make Your Marriage Work

                                                              

Shortly after saying "I do" lots of questions start to emerge in your mind whether you will able to succeed in married life or not. Will your future be fascinating as like your dream?  In today's world, rate of divorce are increasing as a result of failure in married life.

It is become bit difficult to handle a life of togetherness with your spouse. It has no longer a rare phenomenon in our society today. However, we never wish for broken marriage. It is rather important to handle your married life deliberately and carefully.

Each of the partners should have mutual understanding, loving and caring to tackle all kind of situation you confront. Outcome of divorce and broken marriages are repulsive for which couples should strive for stability and satisfaction.

The key factor of marriage is mutual commitment in love. If you are not capable of 

committed to your loved one then you should not go for marriage. Marriage is incomplete without commitment.  However, you can protect your married life blissfully by adopting some secret tips. Here are some of the secrets tips you may wish to implement.

1. Allow some space between you and your spouse

Giving some space to your partner is really needed while maintaining a good relationship. Though you two have exchanged vows to live the rest of your life with your partner forever still you need to allow some space between. Partners often get stifled by uninterrupted overdose of your love and affection and need their some time to spend in their own way.

Keeping space for some time also tends to attract the two most. They again discover the magical moment of their love life. Space injects the shower of love and affection of the couple. However, too much space and freedom also should not be allowed to your partner. It may lead to excess of liberality and negative impacts to your married life. Try to spend quality time with your partners.

2. Understand the language of love of your partner

To make your married life successful, understanding their language of love is most essential. There should be effective communication between the partners. Never hide any feelings and desire to your spouse. Try to express your deepest desire, intention, and plan, thought to your partner.

Always try to create a special bond with your partner by showing your language of love verbally and non-verbally. Don't allow your special bond to fade away with the changing time.

3. Try to compromise with every situation

God has gifted us one most magical mantra to survive with every situation and that is compromise. For Nigerian bride, marriages are always coupled with compromise and sacrifice. To maintain a healthy married relationship, compromise is inseparable element.

Girls are statue of compromise and sacrifice. Mutual compromise and sacrifice built a strong foundation of married relationship. These all are based on mutual love and understanding of the couple.

4. Resolution needed to reduce worries

You may come across with many unwanted and unpleasant situation in your in - laws, house, and also in married life. In order to reduce this kind of redundant situation, make some resolution to erase out the worries. Resolve all your issues and prevent them from accumulating. You also listen to your partner's trouble and try to resolve it with moral and physical support.

5. Keep your ego aside

Ego kills sweetness and pleasure of love relationship of the couple. Ego should never arise in any case. Ego issues related to partners has led raising rate of divorce. Never let the situation hassles. Try to find the solution rather than showing ego. 

Always listen to each other's wills and desire and act tactfully. One partner should never ban the desire of other's wish. If the female partners wish to work to income independently then male partner should hurt by ego problem. It is rather excess earnings for the annual income to the family.

6. Trust your love

Trust is the backbone of love and relationship. It is the most integral part of every marriage. A relationship is vague and futile with having trust and faith to each other. The moment trust diminishes, cracks will soon appear. However, it is childish to trust someone blindly.

However, try to choose your partner who is truly reliable and faithful to their love. Never tie your nuptial knot with any person whom you can never trust for their polygamy nature. Love remains on the basis of trust and faith only.

7. Sex: inevitable part of marriage

Sex is the most essential and acts as a booster for a love relationship of the couple. We all are tends to physical needs and desire. Sex is good and crucial for love and life. It is the eternal way through which couples express their profound love to each other.