Most of us
assume that as soon as we marry getting pregnant and making babies will happen
naturally and will be a fun and uneventful process. Just imagining that extraordinary
feeling of being able to announce to your family and friends that you are
expecting your new baby brings a big smile to your face.
Fertility
though, is a growing issue for some couples. Getting pregnant and making babies
may seem like the most natural thing in the world, but for some couples it is
not so straightforward. Some couples, after trying to get pregnant with no
success, worry that they may be infertile.
Infertility may be primary - that is never having been
pregnant or secondary - meaning having conceived in the past but having
difficulties conceiving again.
So what can be the causes? Causes of
infertility can be divided into male and female issues.
Male issues include - sperm disorders, genetic disorders,
testicular injuries, sexually transmitted infections or drug or alcohol abuse.
Female issues include - blocked fallopian tubes,
endometriosis, congenital abnormalities, sexually transmitted infections, and
polycystic ovary syndrome. These are but a
few of the causes - the lists are not exhaustive.
There are many
daily stresses and strains in today's modern lifestyle which people accept as
normal and put enormous pressure on couples. This in turn can result in their
inability to conceive. So getting pregnant and making babies is no longer so
much fun!
It is heart
wrenching to watch couples in tears feeling disempowered with unanswered
questions. Feeling guilty that they are doing something wrong - or that
something is wrong with them. Even blaming each other. This can take a
toll on your relationship and a downward spiral may emerge.
The more you try,
the more it doesn't happen and the more it doesn't happen the more frustrated
you become. If you have
been trying to get pregnant and make babies and have tried all the things the
doctors have suggested with no success then you are probably still looking for
help.
Ploughing through all the information on nutritional support, counseling
workshops, and how to improve your general health and looking at endless
websites on how to get pregnant and make babies may be taking over your life.
Remember we are not all the same and different approaches are needed for
different people.
Basically
woman's bodies are the same but they function in slightly different ways and
knowing how your body works is the key to your success. Knowledge is power and
the more you know about getting pregnant and making babies the greater the
success of you becoming pregnant. Having an understanding of the different
approaches to infertility is a definite advantage.
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