These days, everyone seems to have the same complaint when it comes to
time. We simply don't have enough - not enough hours in the day - to fit in
everything that we need/want to do. Everyone seems to be rushing around here,
there and everywhere and it's usually your family life that suffers.
Working parents are constantly trying to juggle work, childcare and their own relationship with each other. It's not easy to get the balance, but it's not impossible either.
Working parents are constantly trying to juggle work, childcare and their own relationship with each other. It's not easy to get the balance, but it's not impossible either.
1. Effective management of your time
Maybe time management ought not to be something you would only associate with office life but it can equally help with family life. Everyone in the family has lots going on and has varying schedules every day and every week.
Waking up and getting to work on time, getting to school and back home, getting to do your homework, making time to be involved in sports, leisure activities, getting to set dinner for everyone in the evening, bedtime routines for children, preparing paperwork for tomorrow it goes on and on where do you get time to be together as a family?
The main way of changing this is to make sure that, every day, you all eat together at least the dinner. That is the way you can meet up on what's happening with each member of the family.
2. Plan ahead
Planning ahead is a good way of making sure that you must spend 'quality' time together as a family. Planning will help you go on trips to fun and recreational places such as zoo, beach or going on a picnic; you can also plan for a walk in the park or even going to the cinema. These activities can be done on weekly or fortnightly basis to keep everyone in the family happy.
3. Get stuck in
Getting involved in activities that all the family can participate in, such as walking, outdoor games etc. will help bring everyone together on a regular basis.
4. Regular meeting
Having a family meeting on regular basis can be fulfilling to everybody. Family meeting will help everybody to discuss any issues that are negatively affecting family life, such as sibling rivalries, disruptive behaviour by one or other member of the family or even just introducing new ideas to improve family and enhance family dynamics.
When members of a family discuss, you can learn to resolve their problems before they escalate.
Nice article
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